It’s common to prefer a male or female doctor, male or female hairdresser or barber, or a male or female therapist. Most of us tend to prefer to work with someone of the same gender/gender of identity, as we feel innately understood. At times, we may feel the opposite is true. However, what if you don’t identify with a binary gender? What if your psychic doesn’t either?

It actually doesn’t make a difference your psychic’s gender identity, initially. This also depends on what they do. It’s entirely possible that a medium may have more luck contacting and getting information from spirits of certain genders if their men or women. Spirits don’t evolve with the times. It’s possible that a departed male ancestor will be more forthcoming with a male psychic, and a departed female ancestor with a female psychic.

However, it’s up to you if you feel more comfortable talking about personal things with a male or female psychic. Before deciding on gender though, consider the vibe you get from the person. Does it seem to you that you two can click?

A more important factor, however, is age. The wisdom one gains through getting older cannot be replaced by psychic ability. Psychic ability doesn’t weaken with age. A young psychic may get very strong impressions and messages, but may not know how to properly react or impart those messages. Likewise, an older psychic may know how to frame something or what is important (or from what spirit the message comes from) better than a younger psychic.